First, you better go to the reading with a clear mind. When you are intoxicated or when you are hung over from last night’s party, then you might want to reschedule the reading. As much as possible, you should not be drunk on any type of alcohol, drug, or sleeping pills when you are going for a scheduled reading with the professional.
You should be in a relaxed state when you delve in the reading. This means that you have to be calm upon our arrival to the reading. Do not go into the reading while you are feeling rage or if you have just be exposed to the honking rush hour traffic. If this is the case, better take the time to calm yourself down.
You have to avoid making any deals with the spirit. This will just make it difficult for you and your loved ones in spirit. Moreover, making any deals with the spirits will just be against you. If you are creating a deal with the spirits, then you are sure heading yourself to failure. You are setting up to fail in this reading.
Feeding the mediums should be avoided. In basic terms, this just means that one should not provide any information to the one doing the reading. You have to just shut up and listen to what the professional says. You must learn to keep your lips sealed while the reading is being conducted by the professional.
Force fitting the message is not a nice thing when you are going with the reading. If you are a nice person, you will most likely try to help psychics out by making the messages fit with each other even forcefully. However, you should avoid doing this. What messages that does not make sense should be left as they are.
When there are things that do not make sense, especially if there are nothing that makes sense, you better stop the reading. Just make the professional hold on for a bit and inform him or her about the messages not making sense. Not all of the messages might be meant for you. It might be meant for the person beside you.
Being skeptical is only natural when it comes to this kind of reading. However, since you are already setting yourself up for a reading, you should do it with positive skepticism. You have to try to open your mind for it.
You should avoid counting the misses during the reading. You might end up getting doubtful of the reading because of these misses. Truth be told, the misses are more in number no matter who does the reading. What one should focus on during the reading are the hits that a professional gives you. These are actually what matters for the reading you have scheduled yourself for.